I just don't know what to do any more.
I'm a lone parent of three, the oldest has severe disability, the youngest has ADHD and the middle child is very bright /NT. Since July I have had a back injury which looks as if it will need surgery. I've always felt that my parents hate me. My mum screams and shouts at me because of having to help me look after the children. The oldest one is very challenging at times but ive managed to get her into an independent school for children with autism and already I'm seeing improvement (she's 14)
My friend says I just need to get out of the situation by encouraging dd1,to board. This is probably a good idea for her but I'm worried about what I will do and who will collect my other DC. Dd3, the last time I asked for her to be in after school club wandered off. I'm well educated but I've been at home running my daughters ABA program since I was 23 and I'm now 36. I'm bright but how can I start a career now? I'm a qualified spa therapist.
My mum says she tells everyone at her work that I'm a bastard and she wouldn't care if she never saw me again. I don't care what these people think. She is now dragging my other DC into it. They see her attacking me and get upset and say they hate her (I'm sure they don't mean it) these are children of 11 and 7 and she says she'll cut me them out of her will. (Who cares)
If my children were all NT I could have coped alone.
How do I get out of this shit situation?
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Toxic family, please help
Lottielou272 · 10/09/2016 02:26
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