I walked in on my husband having a wank last night (we sleep in separate rooms).
Nothing too wrong with that, right? But the thing is that I have not felt wanted by him for a very long time. Whenever we have sex (not that often) it is always initiated by me. A few days ago I offered him a blowjob but he said no thank you - 'too much wanking'. I said no problem dear let me know when ;)
We have been married for nearly 10 years. I am (still) young, good looking. I want to feel desired. I don't have it in my life. Sometimes I wonder what single life would be like.
He doesn't come from intercourse either. It makes me feel even more undesirable.
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Feeling unwanted
user1473410376 · 09/09/2016 10:43
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