Hey I need support and someone to talk to really.
Me and my partner have been together almost 7 years (since we were 18 ) we have two boys aged 5 & 2 and baby boy number 3 is due Dec 2016.
He is so selfish its ridiculous, take this morning for example I asked him to get out of bed at 8am to take care of our youngest so I could take our eldest to school ( he never takes him or picks him up) he waited until 8.50am when he should already have been at school before he got up all the wile I was shouting getting stressed out because we were going to be late. He ignored my shouts and sat on the bed longer. Then I've gone right through the house cleaning and he has been asleep from 12 noon until I told him for the fourth time he needed to get up so I could pick our son up from school (so he slept from 12 noon until 2.30) while I cleaned, cooked and saw to our youngest. Now hes currently sat playing on his ps4 while I see to the kids dinner.
Previously he has said things in arguments like he doesn't love me, he should be living his life not settling down with me (7years and three kids too late to be saying that) that I'm the biggest mistake of his life amongst other things.
And yes he does work but only in a retail store having to be up maybe once twice week at 6am and the rest of the time he gets up at 10.30am to then leave for the bus to work at 11.05 not seeing his kids for more than 2 minutes. I do not get lie ins, I cook, clean and see to the kids al day I'm so tierd and feel like he has no respect for me at all and asif he thinks he works an actual job while I'm just a housewife and mammy. As if its not hard work and that I'm not entitled to be tierd even when I'm 27 weeks pregnant.
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partner is so selfish
niki1312 · 08/09/2016 17:10
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