Had a bit of an incident with my family on the weekend. I don't even know how much detail to go in to but it involved my Mum and my Nan. I was caught really badly in the cross fire as it was over a gift that my Nan had bought me for my baby. My brother stormed out of the house as they were stressing him which is really sad as it was the day before his wedding.
DH was pissed as I was devastated and crying. He's not an angry man but is starting to get increasingly annoyed about the goings on in my family. He's even said that he wants to join me for my therapy session on Monday so we can talk it through. He said that he's feeling protective over me and increasingly so now we have the baby coming. He doesn't want the baby to be dragged in and exposed to it all and doesn't want to regret anything he might say.
The words that he said keep echoing around my head "you do realise that's not normal behaviour."
I have a beautiful gift from my Mum and a beautiful gift from my Nan and they are just tainted. It is an exciting time as I only found out on Wednesday that we are expecting a boy.
My head is all of a muddle. The disfunction goes far wider than just my Mum and Nan but I can't even bring myself to go in to it all right now. As far as I'm concerned, NC isn't an option.
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What do you do when you realise your family are not normal?
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DoubleCarrick · 04/09/2016 07:51
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