Ideas / advice welcome.
Smacking is the most recent issue that my DPs feel they are entitled to dish out unsolicited advice over. They are incapable of understanding that anyone could have a different opinion from theirs so any discussion is always a bit of a trial.
I have explained very clearly that we will not be smacking the DCs. Under any circumstances.
They believe that there is a difference between hitting and smacking and that it is good to smack children or they turn into awful, spoilt children who don't know how to behave. Plus it never did their kids any harm. (That they know of!)
I think that smacking a child is unacceptable, that it only teaches children to hit, that it is ok to bully / dominate someone into doing what you want and that usually, parents do it out of frustration rather than a controlled punishment. I said that if I ever did get really cross and smack them, I would be really disappointed in myself and would do everything I could to ensure that I would never, ever repeat the mistake.
They just don't get it and keep going on and on and on and on about it.
I don't feel comfortable leaving the DCs with them as I am not confident that they would keep to our rules and wishes and not smack DC.
AIBU?
Any ideas how I can get them to understand?
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Fourfifthsof · 02/09/2016 17:01
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