6 years ago my husband mentored 3 work colleagues whilst they sat a post graduate. It was arranged through work & 3 women were randomly selected. Two got on with things & the third needed a lot of support & called him at home, emailed essays for him to check & he stayed on to help her. She left every essay/coursework until the last minute & OH would stay on until 9/10 helping her as she was always stressed. She would then email him her work & he would spend the weekend correcting & rewriting her work. She would text about the course & also general chat. I wasn't suspicious but she annoyed me & I told my husband it had to stop. If she can't do the work he shouldn't be doing it for her. OH made excuses saying she was out of uni a long time & needed help etc. The course finished & she still contacted him & asked to meet up to say thanks but I don't think they did. After the qualification she left for a promotion in another company.
Tonight my husband is meeting up with this woman & another one he mentored but he hasnt told me. He told me he has a works night out & the venue but when I asked him who was going he said he wasn't sure. On Saturday he is going for an activity day with his team & I've discovered this woman is going to that too. I'm friends with his work colleague who knows them all & dropped him in it as she was supposed to go for drink tonight but has the kids.
I don't think he cheated on me when he was mentoring her but I did feel like she was crossing the line on a few occasions & taking over his spare time.
What do you think is going on? It feels uncomfortable. He is a liar & he has done it quite easily. If it's innocent why lie? However I genuinely don't think they have seen each other for a couple of years & they wouldn't have invited my friend if it were some affair.
The woman is late 40s, married with kids in early 20s.
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Husband not being truthful about where he is
Lesley1980 · 01/09/2016 23:29
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