DF has a test coming up in a couple of weeks and she is an emotional wreck, fearing the worst. She broke down crying and told me that she is being referred for further investigation at the hospital. She is absolutely terrified about leaving behind her DC.
I gave her a hug and said I understand her worries but for her to try and see the referral as a safety check and it was a million and one other things it could be other than her worst case scenario.
She went onto say, what if it is - and I said If it was people are living long lives after having the illness in 2016 more than ever so it does not have to mean 'the end'.
DF said if it was me I would be worried. And for every person who has beaten it there is someone who has died. And she left shortly after.
I am not very good with words of comfort, can you help me to be more supportive. I have also offered practical support for her.
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Did I do a bad job comforting my friend?
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Soapalert · 31/08/2016 17:56
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