Has anyone else found that once you have kids, your DH gives all the affection that you might have once had to them and you become a bit of an afterthought and taken for granted? My DH told me a while ago that we don't need to be all lovey dovey, I should know he loves me and he's happy just to coexist (his parents don't really show affection to one another but we're not a retired couple just yet, so the odd hug or unexpected kiss when he gets in wouldn't hurt!)
He's affectionate and caring with the children and is really good at making sure they get daddy cuddles, but it's like it's run out by the time it gets to my turn!
I suppose I'm just wondering where the point was that we perhaps started taking one another for granted a bit and while it's never going to be like when it was all exciting and we were first together (and not busily looking after kids and being tired), maybe making him realise that a bit of affection would be worth the effort
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Flibbertyjibit · 30/08/2016 20:40
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