I still fancy DP, I like him, he is intelligent, affectionate, a good provider. He is also funny and does most of the housework! I once thought that he was my perfect mate.
BUT we've had a difficult time. Trying to blend two families, step children. I moved and mounded myself to his life and home. But then the revelation from my DP that he had got cold feet after I moved in. I then found out he had started to text other women.
It was awful for a while and I kicked him out, even though it is his house, but we have a young son and I financially couldn't move anywhere. He left but came back very much wanting to be with me. It got a bit better, and then we went to counselling.
We both have now agreed that he move out for 6 months so try and restart our relationship. Has anyone else done this? I don't know what else to do, it's like if he stays in the house he doesn't put the effort in that is needed.
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Anyone tried a trial separation? DP has moved out for 6 months to save our relationship
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Roastandgravy · 29/08/2016 12:59
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