This has stated to haunt me recently. I had anorexia at 13. Although my parents would always provide me with a meal, and would tell me I needed to eat, sometimes shouting at me for the damage I was doing to myself, they never actually got professional help. I never saw a doctor until later on (on my own at 17).
I also used to cut myself age 14. My parents would tell me I was attention seeking and that it was 'dramatic and silly.' One night I remember begging for them to help me because the OCD and cutting was affecting my life so much. I begged them to get me professional help and they just said I needed to get a grip. I remember lying on the floor crying and saying I couldn't cope, and my mum walked off and called me spoilt brat.
I feel so angry with them. I think the reason they didn't get help is they are very proud people and would have hated to have for anyone to have known what was happening. I feel they let me down and turned their back on me and I spent years afterwards trying to fix myself.
I don't know why I'm posting really. Feel so sad about it and angry with them and I dint know if it's fair of me to feel like that.
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I was anorexic and self harmed, cutting and OCD, and my parents did nothing
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Halfwayoranges · 26/08/2016 00:02
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