Why cant I be happy? Tonight we had a visitor and dh says 'she's so happy to get on with things abd not waiting around to be brought places'
This hit a raw nerve as dh and I didn't live together before marriage and when we married I got my eyes opened to things. How traditional he was and for a long time I took on most of the wife work. Also I was paying all of the mortgage as he moved in with me.
It took a long time to get moving house and now things are fairly split.
The first year of marriage was a nightmare. He came in at six pm for his dinner - also at weekends. Mil is nice but very much old fashioned and showed me how to bake his bread that type of thing.
Dh said on honeymoon he still wanted his own life blah blah. So I was really hurt. I wouldn't stop him from having his life.
He comes from a family that the mother stay in doing housey things. Be ofteb says she nver complains. I do a lot of things on my own - but that comment tonight hurt.
We have two small DC and he is brilliant with them so I won't leave.
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Can't figure out why I am angry at dh
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wobblywonderwoman · 25/08/2016 22:15
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