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314dPiper Tue 23-Aug-16 13:05:21

Here we go!

Let the wisdom commence
The universe is in our favour!

WavingNotDrowning Tue 23-Aug-16 13:42:52

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CiaoVerona Tue 23-Aug-16 13:45:36

Afternoon all!

tanyadm Tue 23-Aug-16 13:46:14

grin At the age of 36, I've graduated to moldie status!

PrizeyPrize Tue 23-Aug-16 13:48:15

Ooooh fab - I'm in! Thanks 314!
<<waves to everyone else>>

314dPiper Tue 23-Aug-16 13:56:19

Hooray!

PrizeyPrize Tue 23-Aug-16 14:22:41

Can I have a link for a meditation/advice to help me not fall in love please....its scaring the shit out of me. I've gone all mushy over this one...fuck!! confused

314dPiper Tue 23-Aug-16 14:24:45

Remember not to invest!
YOU be the one to evaluate.
There must be a clip on you tube.

PrizeyPrize Tue 23-Aug-16 14:31:53

What constitutes investing and evaluating 314?

314dPiper Tue 23-Aug-16 14:45:29

Um yeh, I struggle with that part too because if I've slept with somebody it's because I care. So, um......... not sure what the point of it all is if you don't care!

I hope I can get some more useful tips.

WavingNotDrowning Tue 23-Aug-16 14:49:36

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PrizeyPrize Tue 23-Aug-16 15:10:41

We've so far spent hours and hours in each others company and its just beyond amazing, couldn't keep our hands off each other the whole time, lots of deep discussions about our lives & getting to know one another, having loads of the best ever sex of my life, laughing, joking and cuddling. Its just so relaxing being with him, just easy, no stress, no uncomfortableness, he feels strangely familiar, Iike we've known each other far longer, and he gets that too. We've not obviously had a discussion about where this is heading because its way too early, right now we are getting to know one another and so far it feels fabulous. We went away and spent 36 hours straight in each others company (which for 2 introverts is a long time), and at the end were trying to figure out a way of how we could stay another day (damn you work commitments) but it just wasn't feasible. We have to wait another fortnight before we can see each other again (because of my DCs). God, I fancy him so much, I look at him and think 'how did I pull that?'
This is lovely but scary at the same time.

WavingNotDrowning Tue 23-Aug-16 15:13:54

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PrizeyPrize Tue 23-Aug-16 15:28:00

Met him online Waving.
So far no red-flags (I like to think 'm pretty wise to them) no arrogance or pigeon chesting, no OTT promises or cheesy shmoozing or flashiness to try and impress me, no bombardment with constant texts from morning till night (I have a great dislike for the 'good morning beautiful' texts as soon as they've woken up), always a few texts in the day and a few more at night blush, sometimes a call, and he always answers my texts reasonably promptly. He's just himself and I'm just myself and I think thats why it feels so comfortable and relaxing. If it comes to that stage, I will not be introducing the kids for a very, very long time probably 6 months or so, if not longer.

WavingNotDrowning Tue 23-Aug-16 15:50:31

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314dPiper Tue 23-Aug-16 15:59:34

My biggest challenge right now is resisting the urge to splurge on some nice things I've seen on line. Phase eight skirt for example. I normally treat myself to a little something when a McRelationsip-lite ends. Resist. Resist. Resist. Today's driving lesson went much better. I think my mind was elsewhere this day last week. Like, really, it was last week that I was worse off. Today he was praising my driving. I really need to be told how well I'm doing :-p

I'm going out for a ten k in about half an hour. Tonight's route won't be interrupted by any uncomfortable phone conversation to tie up a loose end that'd been dangling for at least a fortnight.

I saw this joke and there's no way I'd put it up on facebook but it gave me a shudder just imagining it

" Dating a hoarder: I used to date a hoarder. She broke up with me. That stings. I was the one thing she could bear to get rid of "

tanyadm Tue 23-Aug-16 17:14:46

Don't judge me..... I messaged Bee, have had a catastrophic week, might be losing my job, just needed familiar chat.

I was all for the positive, and putting CM and Bee FAR away from me, and I know I'm being a self-defeating numpty 😆

tanyadm Tue 23-Aug-16 17:16:24

Awwww, Prizey, that sounds amazing!

MyGastIsFlabbered Tue 23-Aug-16 17:17:20

Prizey that all sounds very similar to me. Met him 2 weeks ago on Tinder, he had only joined the day before, I was the first person he matched and spoke with, he deleted his account 2 days later. Everything just works, and I'm terrified! As well as enjoying it. I'm on holiday this week which is a bit of a bugger but determined to enjoy myself and make up for lost time when I get back.

314dPiper Tue 23-Aug-16 17:18:02

I thought he'd blocked you the little git tanyadm

314dPiper Tue 23-Aug-16 17:20:10

lol @ waving sad old man is right. I wouldn't worry too much. 30 days no communication and you want your stuff back and ps, you're a sad old man.

This has got to be followed up by sending our au pair to get your dress and shoes. Whatever way you look at it, you have staff grin

PrizeyPrize Tue 23-Aug-16 17:24:48

Aww Gast thats brilliant! Yay!
Tanya no judging here, glad to hear it was positive chat with Bee though.

WavingNotDrowning Tue 23-Aug-16 22:11:56

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starskey80 Tue 23-Aug-16 22:46:13

prizey I'm the same, on week 8 of dating this lad.
He's amazing, it's amazing and I had mild panic today over it all.
All of our dates have been over 24 hours. The last three weekends we've spent the whole time together. There's no angst, no worry will he text cause he always does. I was first and last woman he chatted to online.
I'm 7 months out of my marriage and am fearful of another broken heart, but it's going so well. Which in turn makes it a bit scary. Just love being around him. Also best sex ever grin
Hard to stay grounded isn't it.

No red flags though, so I'm just going to enjoy and figure I've just been lucky.

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