I have totally lost perspective as I'm exhausted so if I need to STFU & stop moaning, you lot can tell me!
Back ground dp never steps in or takes over with the dc or house. I am a SAHM not through choice but our middle 2 dc are Autistic. Moderately so, they attend Special Schools, get DLA & respite, (to give you an idea of their level of need).
I do have an income from a business i have had for years but I employ people who manage it very well.
The dc are 15, 11,8 & 2. Summer holidays last 9 weeks due to different term dates.
Dp never takes over. I asked him to take all the dc out one day a month so i could just clean up & have some 'head space'.
He didn't do it once, (hes had 2 weekends off work since the start of holidays).
So I started to go out to get a break but hes managed to mess my plans up twice. Last weekend I was late meeting some friends as he went out for bread & milk but was gone an hour.
Today I had a hairdresser's appointment but he suddenly declared his car wasn't working propley & he needed to take it to a friend's garage an hour away.
I'm away by myself next week with the dc so no break for at least another 10 days.
Am i expecting too much?
He acts like he doesn't understand why i am so grumpy, i literally want to scream at him!!
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Why can't dp understand I NEED a break?
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PeppasNanna · 22/08/2016 23:18
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