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I want out. Pls help me

(5 Posts)
Mrs2ndbest Sun 21-Aug-16 10:25:00

Pls help me. I have a 5 month old baby, 3 and 5 yr old. I cannot live with my partner anymore. All he does is bring me down. Think I need to get away for my own sanity. We aren't married but have been together 11 years and I'm a SAHM. How can I get away from him? Told him I've had enough and his response was you can't even screw a lid on properly let alone sort your life out on your own. He owns everything in his name, my name is on nothing. Pls help me I'm in such a desperate state. I want to get away from him.

notapizzaeater Sun 21-Aug-16 10:26:46

Can you speak to family or friends ? You need to start making an exit plan. Have you access to money/ bank accounts etc ?

Mrs2ndbest Sun 21-Aug-16 10:34:57

Only my own. We don't have anything joint. He often tells me I should know my role and never gets up with the kids because he's not a morning person. I could go on, I don't know how I've stomached it for so long.

Resilience16 Sun 21-Aug-16 11:07:32

Get some legal advice. You can get it free through CAB.Also contact Women's Aid for practical advice on leaving someone who is controlling/abusive.

Rainbowqueeen Sun 21-Aug-16 11:24:26

Womens aid would be a great first step for you

Are you able to call them tomorrow? Can you write a list of some basic info just to help you not forget anything.

Wishing you all the best

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