I've got date number 3 coming up with a guy I met on tinder about a month ago. Since we first matched we have messaged every day, and both dates have gone beyond perfectly. I fancy the fucking pants off him and we've had conversations about me staying over at his soon. All good stuff.
I've had a really bloody rough time of it in the past though, been cheated on, hit, sworn at, abused emotionally, financially, mentally etc etc and therefore my twat radar is on very high alert. Thankfully I've had no warning signs, red flags whatsoever from him. But I would like to kind of have the exclusivity/expectations chat with him before things progress. Does anyone have any experience of this and how it went? I'm scared I'm being too previous and that it'll scare him off, think I'm being too heavy but part of me just wants to be upfront and honest after everything I've been through so I don't get hurt again.
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knockingonheavensdoor · 17/08/2016 11:58
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