Just come back after a holiday with dh and lo. Feeling v distraught. Holidayed in an area filled with my old childhood memories which made me miss and mourn for my Dad who passed away last year and worry about losing my Mum who is terminally ill. Have done all the driving as dh unable to drive for health reasons. I booked said hol as I wanted lo to enjoy going places I used to love goin as a child....she did have fun. Dh said he wanted to go too...I booked everything....he never does. Anyway I'm waffling...v tired after nearly 5hrs driving. Anyway....he's been acting v strange. By chance on ipad last week...where we have open access to eachothers emails...nothing to hide (or so I thought)...I saw he'd signed up to match.com...I confronted him, v shocked as didn't think it would be his thing...he denied it profusely...said someone must have hacked into his account and he's contacted his email provider and asked blocked it...hmmm.
Then he is more often than not working late. That could be genuine but we rarely see him. Then he's glued to his phone....showed me when I asked what news doing he's on bbcsports.. fair enough it is the Olympics..
But he is always on his phone.
Then we went to a work party...there was this petite, pretty and v slim colleague talking to him (everything I'm not and seemed v nervous around me...though v nervy in general tbh) When I mentioned that they seemed v friendly he protested 'sorry if I made u feel weird. We hardly talk at work... she's v mysterious'.
Alarm bells were ringing.
Then this trip....
No hugs, no kisses...no affection
Zilch
No praise
V little thanks
Nothing
I'm so worried and scared
He says i love u. I'll never leave but how do I know he means it.
I'm vv scared.
He's a good father to our lo
What do i do
I don't think he loves me anymore
I don't know why he's still with me tbh. I know I've let myself go...but still...I cry a lot but it's cos I'm grieving so much. I feel so alone
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