Hi
I'm pissed off right now.
Was going to name change but what the hell so here goes.
I've been single since January.it was my decision, no problem.
Used that time to go out with friends and focus on what I want etc etc.
Anyway.. Joined plenty of fish( I know) lots of friends have found their partner on there.
I've had lots of messages.
I've been quite clear with my requirements( sounds harsh) ive said no for many reasons.
However I had meets with some men.
Some where there hasn't been a connection and it hasn't lead to another meet up.
I've clearly stated I want a single man who wants a relationship.
I've also said I only want to meet initially for coffee because I don't want either of us to feel we have wasted a full day if we do not get along.
Now I've met 2 men who I liked, and liked a lot. The first one said he liked me could we meet up again he told me all about himself blah blah. He went into serious details telling me all about his beliefs and other things.
We met several times and ge asked me to spend his birthday with him,
I agreed all was good he said he had had a fantastic time.
Then things progressed and we did.
It was fabulous. We both enjoyed it.
Then no contact.
I texted him and rang and he didn't reply.
I put it down to experience.
He is now back on line and I haven't contacted him.
He actually chased me quite a lot when I think about it. I also told him I wasn't interested in seeing him just for sex.
Anyway I then met another man and we chatted on line. We met for coffee and things went well. I was more cautious but as I liked him I agreed to meet him again.
He told me all about his life ect etc
We then spent the day together and again I was slightly more cautious.
He sensed this and asked if I liked him as he liked me, only wanted to vs with one woman didn't want a one night stand, wasn't looking just for sex etc etc.
As the day progressed we had fun and we ended up kissing.
He asked if I wanted to go yo his for coffee and we ended up dad and I spent the night at his.
The next day things were great and we agreed to meet up later.
Then I get a text message and he says ge has to cancel as his son is coming but ge would ring me when his son had left.
I had a gut feeling he was lying,
I text him before I went to bed and he text back but I scent heard from him since.
Wtf is wrong with these men.
I gad conversations with both of them agreeing that people who just want sex should use other sites.
This is 2016- are men still expecting women not to have sex? Or wait until they are bloody engaged.
Fwiw both ndn said they would come off the dating site, since they had found what they were looking for.
Both said the sex was amazing.
Ffs have I been that unlucky to have met 2 fucking players who lie their ass off.
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