Hi
Me and my daughters dad where never together, we saw eachother a few times but it was just casual. Well shock after we stopped speaking I found out I was 18 weeks pregnant. I told him and he pushed for an abortion and said a lot of horrible things. as I was already 18 weeks I said no and told him I would be keeping her.
I had her in 2015 and he did try to be involved but I stopped him as all the horrible things he said, I didn't feel like that was the type of person I wanted in my child's life. Well I had time to think it over and a few months passed and I realised he could change and it might be the best thing, I told him he could be involved and he had changed his mind and wanted no involvement with her.
i decided to contact his mum on Facebook, he had previously told me he had told his mum. His mum contacted me and told me she had no idea. I sent her a long message regarding our relationship and how it all happened and how I would love her to be in her life.
So she phoned me a while ago and said she couldn't speak as she was at work but wanted to let me know she got my message. She text me a week later asking if we could meet rather than hold a conversation about this over the phone. I said ok and she suggested a day and place we could meet to "talk"
I don't really know what she means by "talk" or what about and if I bring my daughter?
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Lil292 · 14/08/2016 01:25
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