Quick bit of history....
Been with dh over a decade, married 3 years and a young 2 year old daughter.
Just over a year ago dh had an affair with a colleague. Pretty sure it didn't go as far as sex and I ended up catching it after the initial physical incident so it didn't go on for long (doesn't excuse it at all I know)
Since then we have struggled. Dh has been made redundant and is now not working and we have had a lot of ups and downs. It's funny how tough life gets when you can't afford to do anything.
We are still working through our issues as clearly we have some problems.
Anyway I find myself thinking a lot about a colleague at work. Nothing will happen, he is happily engaged with several children and most definitely sees me as nothing more than a colleague.
Im already planning a career change and looking for another job in the hope that I can make changes to improve my life whilst also working on our marriage so if this pans out I'll no longer be working with said colleague.
Am i right that it's just me longing for some excitement and to feel really wanted by someone after the year we have gone through.
I know that this is highlighting the issues we have in our marriage and assume that until these issues are resolved whatever job I have I will end up thinking this way about a colleague as it's my mind and heart telling me things aren't right and I want a better life.
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Fudgemuffin87 · 13/08/2016 09:38
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