More of a lurker than a poster but I've seen some of the excellent advice that other posters have received so would be interested in 3rd party opinions for my situation.
Background is that for almost a year now I have been dating a much younger guy who is in the process of a divorce. I've met his family and his kids etc and we get along very well together.
Anyway when we had been dating for just a few months I had a birthday and I would have to say his effort was pretty under-whelming! No card or even a small present until about a week after the event he finally turns up with a card and a small box of sweets which i was delighted with as I didn't ever expect a huge, expensive gift i just wanted to feel appreciated and he swore he would make it up to me as soon as he could, I'm still waiting by the way.
This weekend his ex has moved in with someone else (not sure if that is relevant!) and it was her birthday this weekend past also. During a phone call yesterday he said he had reminded his kids that it was very important that they remember and mark their mum's birthday and how they mustn't upset their mum by not doing anything on the day. I couldn't help myself but I asked him why was he so concerned about her birthday when my birthday was a non-event in his eyes and he just said "you're too old for birthdays" which he thought was a joke. It may seem petty but this is not the first time he has promised me something and let me down and I was deeply hurt at the time as he had promised to take me out to celebrate. I'm starting to feel a bit of a mug!
I'm also beginning to think this is just too much hard work and my motto has always been the moment someone makes you feel bad about yourself is the time you walk away - i think that time has come for me.
But am i being over-sensitive??
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Pretty livid right now but AIBU..........
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BettySwallocks221 · 09/08/2016 09:07
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