My husband walked out on me last weekend. There was no real warning, he just went out for a ride on his bike and texted to say he wasn't coming back. He has been suffering from depression and had a recent change of medication which is known for making people feel a lot worse before they feel better but he doesn't think this is related. He is staying at his mum's.
He says that he loves me and cares for me more than anyone in the world but at the moment he doesn't know if he loves me as a wife or as a best friend. He wants me to be a part of his life but he isn't sure in what 'capacity' (his words). He says that he is hopeful that the time apart will help him to sort his head out and that we may get back together but I need to move forward as if we have split up for my own happiness, just in case we don't work out.
I am completely broken, we were so happy. We have 2 children and this has confused them. He has been here to see them every day but I have found it hard today as he has done things with them that we would usually do as a family. I have cried on and off since he left this afternoon and now that the children are in bed I just can't stop crying. I miss him so much and I can't believe that this has happened to me.
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amatuermummy · 06/08/2016 19:53
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