I was with my husband 13 years (married 2 together 11), to cut a long story short my husband starting acting differently back in October, I was 7 months pregnant, I put it down to baby nerves, but you just know when something isn't right. He just changed overnight, he went from my loving husband to a distant moody horrible man.
So my dd was born in December, things didn't change the first 10 days of her life he would leave the house at any given opportunity and was simply awful to me. I couldn't take anymore and did some snooping, found messages he sent another woman (while I was in labour) declaring their love for one another! I confronted him, he denied anything. He stayed for another 2 months, all the while it carried on, the final straw came when he said he was going out with a friend but the next day I found cinema tickets in his pockets and he confirmed he had been with her. I threw him out that morning.
I'm not going to lie it has been HARD, it has taken me so long to get over this (not sure I am yet) my maternity leave has been ruined and a time where I should be enjoying my dd has been tainted by a sordid affair. Anyway they have since come out as being in a relationship! He told me months ago they were together, it has pretty much destroyed me. Anyway our latest arguement is over meeting the other woman, I don't want my baby to ever meet this person, it simply destroys me to think of her having anything to do with my baby. I have never stopped him seeing our baby girl, even though many occasions he cancels or changes our set days because he has other plans (with the new girlfriend)... Am I being completely unreasonable
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AIBU to want to stop the other woman seeing my child
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Rix456 · 29/07/2016 21:35
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