Ok, I know there has prob been many a thread on this - but I am really struggling.
I have never had a massive social circle, i've always been on the fringe of friendship groups. for example when i was pregnant I joined NCT and our group all exchanged numbers etc and have met up occasionally - we have a messaging group....and all messages on that are about meet ups, general conversation etc. A few of the group all now go to the same baby groups - I joined the same groups but in a different location - My DS is oldest and I joined my group first - they all then joined another group. So they all now meet up there and socialise afterwards. - so i kind of feel left out and on the outside of things.
The above is just one example.
As soon as I had my DS, I joined multiple groups and I go to two fitness classes week - but i cannot seem to make that step to actually speak to anyone - even if i do i don't even know how to go from that to arranging to meet for coffee or anything!
I don't hear from work colleagues (having worked with them for over a decade) I am always the one to text them - even though 2 of them are on maternity leave at the same time....but meeting up is never suggested.
Now my DS is coming up 6 months old and I can't bare the days when I am on my own - even if i have a class or something that only takes an hour or so and then I come home and feel so isolated. I keep getting depressed and upset with DH because I am so lonely during day and I don't have anything to talk to him about. The friends I did have before getting pregnant I hardly hear from and they never mention doing anything or meeting up or even coming to see me. I just feel like i could drop of the face of the earth and hardly anyone would notice.
I did a group thing this morning for an hour or so then I was home by Lunch and all i can think is that it will be another 5.5 hours till DH is home and that will be the next person I speak to!
I am quite paranoid around people, i think they don't like me, i think they talk about me or are judging me.....which can lead me to overthinking what I wear when i go out, what i say to people....its all a horrible circle!!! And I don't know how to get out of it.
How do i get myself out of this, i feel so lonely and isolated and I cannot bear it.
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No Social life- Starting to affect my mental health.
Partiallycloudy · 26/07/2016 15:40
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