I've been in a new relationship for about 3 months now and it's going really well apart from one little niggle.
He had been separated from his ex for about 18 months when I met him. It seems it was a messy break up and he was heartbroken over losing his family. He sees his child and is a great father.
The thing that is bothering me is that he has on several occasions said things like he feels he should have tried harder to remain a family for the sake of his child. I asked him outright if he would go back if she asked and he couldn't say no.
He says it's not her he would go back for - she hurt him alot and he says he doesn't like her at all because of the things she did. He just feels so bad for the broken family, for being a single parent and for missing out on so much father/child time.
They seem to have a more civil relationship now and have recently had a few family days out and I think this has made him pine for the family even more. He has also just said she's invited him for a family weekend away and he is considering it because he doesn't want to rock the boat.
But I'm terrified I'm setting myself up to be hurt here. I really like him and would like to see where this could go which he's said he'd like to do too but I can't help feeling he'd jump if she asked.
WWYD?
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CakeyMcCakey · 24/07/2016 18:57
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