I'm in a state. I don't know what to do. It's such a long story, my h has a gambling problem. It escalated to the point that I had to have full control of our money just to make sure we could pay the bills. He stopped for a while then moved his attention on to sexting apps and web cam sites. I understand some people may be ok with that but I am not. Showing his dick and having explicit chats with other women is cheating in my eyes. Whether it was physical or not doesn't matter to me. I tried to move on, then a few months later he did it again. Stupid idiot that I am forgave him again.
This morning I've discovered that for the past "few weeks" he has been gambling and "chatting" to other women again. I'm heartbroken. I'm so fucking stupid. He was diagnosed with ADHD a few months ago and I stupidly thought he was getting help and serious about changing. How wrong was I.
He's made the decision to leave. I suspect he's waiting for me to ask him to stay.
I don't know what to tell the DC about why Daddy isn't at home. DS has SN and change in routine is a massive trigger.
I'm trying to keep it together as I'm home with DD who's 3. I don't know what went wrong. Why was I not enough for him.
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Please somebody help me. My marriage is over
Fellytone · 20/07/2016 12:26
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