Hello, I'm 24 and I have been with my partner for 4 years and we are engaged. We have two young children, 2 and 8months. I am currently on medication for post natal depression. As a person I am really loving, affectionate and caring. My partner however is not. He has slowly stopped showing me any kind of affection unless it's sex. I love him so much but he doesn't kiss me, hug me or touch me unless it's for sex and I feel so unloved, for me I can't just have sex, I need some intamcy and love, that's what it's based on for me. I have to feel connected and lately I don't so our sex life has really took a back seat. I have told him how I feel and he's still not making a effort, I feel like he is forced to show me any kind of affection. I do it because I love him and there's no question about it. It's a natural feeling for me but it's not for him. I feel so unwanted and it's causing so many arguments. I don't know what to do anymore I just feel like he doesn't like me and it really upsets me.
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