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Separation?

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Woodman2007 · 15/07/2016 21:37

Has anybody had their husband ask for a separation? Mine has said he needs space and time apart. Doesn't know yet if it's temporary or permanent. Says he doesn't love me anymore. Doesn't want to be around me. May have feelings for someone else but doesn't know what those feelings are. Has anybody had a separation and got back together?

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Itsnowornever01 · 15/07/2016 21:48

Yes mine left for the same reasons. We got back together but it has never been the same since as always feel insecure that he may do it again. Once bitten twice shy and all that.

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Woodman2007 · 15/07/2016 22:14

How long did you separate for?

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Itsnowornever01 · 15/07/2016 22:14

A year.

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Woodman2007 · 15/07/2016 22:21

How long have you been back together? Are you finding it easier as time goes on? Just feel like my husband is running away from problem rather than trying to deal with it. We were meant to be starting couple counselling but he has now decided he doesn't want it. We have 2 daughters aged 4 and 8. So scared for them too. Think they will be devastated when they discover he is going. They are both so close to him.

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Itsnowornever01 · 15/07/2016 22:25

No I haven't found it easy. Its been complicated for many reasons.

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