I went into our garage a couple of days ago to put something away and noticed that DH's fancy, expensive bike wasn't there. It quickly dawned on me that he had most likely sold it as he is always claiming he has no money. I asked him about it (calmly) later on; he had pawned it, I was furious!
I explained how angry and disappointed I was at this and asked what he 'needed' the money for (bills are paid, food on the table, petrol in the cars, etc.) He basically used it to go to the pub because he had run out of cash
He insists he will 'buy' the bike back before the time runs out to do so, but I know he'll struggle to keep enough money back. However I have the money to get it back now, but I don't want to give it to him because 1. It's his doing and 2. He will never pay me back (I know from bitter experience).
I really want him to get it back partly because I bought it for him, but mainly because DS loves going out on his bike and has only just started doing so with us rather than in the child seat on my bike. It makes DS feel 'grown up' to go out on the bikes with his Daddy, and they both enjoy it.
So (please) putting aside the many other issues that are apparent from this post, should I 'buy' the bike back for ds' sake, or wait to see if he does? And what should I do next if I decide to wait and he doesn't get it back?
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chalky3 · 15/07/2016 19:49
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