NC as this is very outing.
I'm friends with my ex on FB. We were together for 3 years. We broke up 11 years ago and it was really messy. I was a complete bitch to him.
He sent me a friend request about 4 years ago which I accepted but we haven't 'interacted' much on FB. I think he's 'liked' a couple of my posts but that's it. I don't actually use FB all that much at all.
I have picked up a message today on FB which he sent in the early hours of Tuesday morning. I don't want to paste the whole message but it was basically asking me if we could meet up or chat on the phone to talk through some unfinished business from when we broke up. He said he was having a pretty major breakdown and wanted to get some clarity and closure on the period when our relationship ended.
Then on Wednesday morning he posted a public status saying that he'd had a big crisis but had been well supported by friends and family and had come through the other side.
I've only just seen the message and the status post this afternoon. Given that it looks like he's come through whatever he was going through I don't know if it's a good idea to reply to his earlier message. I don't think I should. I think I should just ignore it but I don't know. WWYD?
It shouldn't matter but will inevitably get asked on here- I've got a DP. Been with DP for 11 years.
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Message from Ex. Should I respond?
SugarBeats · 14/07/2016 13:33
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