I'm new and not sure if this is the right place so I'm sorry if I've posted in the wrong bit.
My boyfriend has put on a lot of weight recently, like, his face is almost unrecognisable (he seems to pack weight on really quickly) it happened after he switched from a very active job to a very sedentary one, and I just don't find him sexually attractive anymore and it makes me feel like a real bitch.
For what it's worth he doesn't like how he looks at the moment either and I think he will try and do something about it but our sex life is in the toilet. Am I being a shallow cow or do people realistically lose interest in sex with someone overweight ( don't just mean a few pounds either like this is a Henry VIII situation, has gone from toned and muscly to bloated in a couple of months - he says it's not medical).
He's still the guy I love and I know that should matter more than anything physical. Anyway thanks for reading.
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LilyWeatherwax · 11/07/2016 11:56
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