Hi everyone,
I just wanted to express how difficult I find socialising with other school mums. My kids have been in their current school for 3 years now, and although I do know and chat to many more people than I did first, I still feel like a complete alien.
I am usually ok with it as I only drop off and pick up the kids, but events like sports day are only reminder of how inadequate I feel in such situations. I look at them all and they seem to get on so well, chatting away and giggling, and I end up thinking the problem lies with me. Recently I picked my kid up from his friend's house, and his friend's mum had a couple of friends over, so I sat down with them and chatted over a glass of wine. They all said they felt the same about socialising at the school gate. They all found it painful.
Sometimes I wonder if it is to do with the fact that I am not British, I have a different culture, but still I have been in the UK for over 12 years. I do feel isolated, but equally, I'm not keen on small talk, never have been.
I'd really like to hear about other mums' experiences, and hopefully feel less of a weirdo !
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alienmama · 06/07/2016 19:09
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