I've been with my DP for almost 20 years, we have two children, one flown the nest and the other 17.
I became severely disabled six years ago, and since my DP has had to shoulder the burden of everything as I'm bedbound. My DP has a severe health condition of their own from birth. Neither of us are able to work.
I feel like I'm unfairly impinging on DPs life, they have little control of their own lives and our friendship circles are non-existent. It's often said love bridges all gaps but I feel an unfair burden.
I'm giving thought to ending things. We still love each other very much, but I don't want to be responsible for fucking up DPs life.
Thoughts? (Have NCed for this).
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Unfair burden?
CindyThomas · 03/07/2016 05:28
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