I can't do it anymore. I've said its over since 27th of December, I've had the formal chat after seeing my solicitor on the 22nd Jan. After 3 solicitors letters DH has just been ignoring, head in the sand but then when the court ultimatum letter came he said he wanted counselling. And to try.
That was the 25th April. I said I would go once as a forum to get the communication going but still no date. We're living parallel lives, not speaking or snapping. He's been away for a couple of weeks and life has been relaxed, all the things that seem hard have been easy.
Talking to friends, I don't want to try. I'd prefer not to be divorced and have to co-parent and have my lovely little boy have weekends away from me but living like this is awful. Life would be harder needing to sort out nannies etc but I would be free. I can't imaging ever wanting to hug or be close or have sex with someone I used to love.
I need to do the chat AGAIN and I really need to hear a bit of positive encouragement. Or that thing MN does really well where someone tells you to pull your big girls pants up and get on with it.
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Isaintheshop · 01/07/2016 16:13
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