So after two weeks of him tooing and froing, I finally bit the bullet and asked husband to go. He had said he didn't love me anymore and wanted to leave eventually but live under the same roof short term.
When I refused this them he said he would find somewhere else to stay.
He is staying with his Aunt but wanted to be here until kids go to bed and pretend to them he was living here.
I refused and said if he would tell the DC then I would. He is furious. Kids are ok, up and down as expected, he was weeping and crying and saying he wished this wasn't happening to them. He says I am a 'disgrace' for telling them before he was ready. DC are 12, 10, 8 and 4, so knew something was up and were asking questions. I'm relieved they know but feel terrible that it has come to this.
How do I move on. I've been with him since I was 15 and I'm now a 39 single mother of 4.
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Told the DC 😢
Attheendofmytether1 · 29/06/2016 21:47
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