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would you mind being called a prude

(5 Posts)
besshope Wed 29-Jun-16 09:34:13

by your dp? I think it might be the end for me and am not sure if that's U or not sad It was in the context of me asking him about porn - which he admits he uses but outright refuses to discuss at all. He then said I was a prude but when I asked why he thought this he wouldn't say. I'd thought our sex life was good. We've been on/off for 18 months but can't really seem to get things off the ground for one reason and another, despite liking each other a lot. Time to end it? sad

AttilaTheMeerkat Wed 29-Jun-16 09:39:46

Yes it is time to end this so called relationship. Its clearly not working and he is not interested in trying to improve things. He just keeps on shutting you out or down, these are not the actions of a loving man. Not at all surprised that you have been on/off or the past 18 months in these circumstances; those reasons are really staring you in the face.

ImperialBlether Wed 29-Jun-16 09:42:06

I'd call it a day. It sounds as though he's got the death grip anyway - good luck to any woman who takes him on.

Are you financially independent of him?

besshope Wed 29-Jun-16 11:12:23

Thanks it really helps to talk it over on here. atilla that's exactly it, being shut down. Hes' done the silent treatment too in the past - I think he just finds it really difficult to talk about things sometimes while I'm quite an open sort of person.
Imperial yes we don't live together and no ties - I have dcs he doesn't have any.

RedMapleLeaf Wed 29-Jun-16 11:13:28

Time to end it.

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