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He's gone and I'm devastated

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Attheendofmytether1 Tue 28-Jun-16 21:26:52

Well if you remember my last thread, it's been two weeks of hell and he is gone.
He wanted to make it work but is now giving the I love you but am not in love with you speech.
He wanted to sleep on the sofa but I couldn't do it anymore. I asked him to leave so he went and is now texting asking if he can have some clothes now the 4 DC are in bed.
I'm ignoring him so no doubt he will arrive with his mum and dad to collect his stuff.
Good god no one deserves to go through this.

Wonkydonkey44 Tue 28-Jun-16 21:38:21

Sending u hugs xxx

Puff42 Tue 28-Jun-16 23:41:50

Oh I'm so sorry. Did they show up?

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lucjam2105 Wed 29-Jun-16 05:16:06

Reported donna Murray post

pullthecracker Wed 29-Jun-16 06:00:22

Also reported.
Attheend, hope he doesn't start to cause more trouble for you. flowers

Daffodil90 Wed 29-Jun-16 06:01:01

Also reported Donna Murray.

Hope you're okay OP. Sending flowers

user1465823522 Wed 29-Jun-16 06:46:12

you kicked him out - let him come collect his shit and move on. there's no need for drama - it doesn't help anyone.

user1466803045 Wed 29-Jun-16 06:50:14

Big hugs to you x

Attheendofmytether1 Wed 29-Jun-16 07:45:50

Thank you. I'm ok. Managed a few hours sleep. I woke up and he was in my room getting underwear?!?? I was convinced I locked all the doors so I have to check that out more thoroughly.

Resilience16 Fri 01-Jul-16 19:27:13

Hope you are ok. Seriously consider changing your locks .

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