I've namechanged as I've had the same name for a while and just don't want exP to recognise this if by any chance he recognises any other posts. But I am a longstanding MNer.
I'm newly single aged 46 and after a long relationship. I didn't think I was interested in sex at all because as the relationship deteriorated (communication probs, dishonesty and PA behaviour from him) I went right off it. But having ended it and preparing to have our own places, I realise I am interested - not really in a relationship or living with a man ever again but maybe, eventually, in dating or casual flings.
But I've never ever done OLD though I've head plenty about the horrors.
What I want to know is - can you dip your toe in the water and have a look, just to see what it's like / the men are like - without having to put up a profile of your own? One problem for me is that I'm kind of known in a certain field - I'm not famous but I do have a public profile and image to maintain (in my field). I don't like the idea of just putting my details on a site until I'm really sure. So is it possible to kind of "lurk" on OLD sites without actually offering up your own details until you're ready? How does the whole thing work?
Also I have no idea which OLD sites would suit me. Professional, highly educated, creative job, I'd be looking for interesting, sciency or creative tall, hot, Hugh-Laurie-a-like men. Not asking much am I? :o
If anyone can give me a run-down of how to just have a look / lurk that would be great!
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