Last night my husband told me to go away, get out...not sure if he meant out of the room or the house. We haven't got on for a while, ages actually I guess. He works such long hours, about 80 a week, and i work 21 hours a week and also have a chronic illness. We have 2 ds, ds1 is nearly 4 and ds2 is 20 months.
Me and dh are always exhausted, him from work and me from my illness and ds2's terrible sleeping, which is only now starting to improve but he is still a very early riser. So when me and dh get to speak to each other, which is first thing in the morning, it is not really quality time!
Dh is an emotional abuser, this is what prompted everything last night - I needed him to help me figure something out as my illness causes cognitive problems and my brain was all foggy, but he was just making me feel like I was stupid (just through his tone and little comments, nothing i could actually specifically call him out on). I asked if he meant to make me feel stupid, and he just acted like I was imagining it.
I should mention I also suffer from depression, anxiety and panic attacks which have been worse lately due to a lot of stress about other things. I haven't been on any meds due to previous side effects. Last night I managed (amazingly) to book a Dr app for this morning, so I will see if I can try a different med.
I don't know what to do. I feel like it's over, but I'm just waiting for him to tell me.
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Dizzywizz · 20/06/2016 05:50
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