I always find that people are so abrupt with me, there is never any fluffiness or warmth towards me. Does anyone else ever feel that way? Whenever I meet a group of new people they never seem to take to me, too.
I am on a Facebook small group with a group of local friends, and recently I posted on it about something that has been going on in my life that has been difficult and upsetting. Everyone read it but only two replied and their replies were very much of the "Oh dear" variety rather than anything supportive or caring. Whilst the others only have to break a fingernail and they get "Oh you poor darling, thinking of you and sending love" type replies.
Even on mumsnet, I posted the same problem (under a name change) recently and only got a couple of abrupt replies, no support or niceness. At the very same time someone else posted a near identical issue on the same board and they got hundreds and hundreds of supportive, kind replies with people offering to do all sorts for them.
It hurts, it really does. Am I alone in feeling like this?
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Am I the only person who feels like people are always nicer to other people than to you?
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IAmTheOP · 16/06/2016 23:12
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