Ex was EA during 14 year marriage, I believe he has definitely got a personality disorder of some sort, no empathy, selfish beyond belief, can never be wrong, will not entertain being asked not to do stuff (eg like not hitting the children during contact!), huge control and power freak. Anyway highly acrimonious divorce 3 years ago. He basically has said he will ignore all emails from me unless it's regarding contact time with the children (because I've pulled him up on his parenting) I've said to him if we are to co-parent smoothly we should not be at each others throats but he clearly can't bring himself to converse with me directly.
Just wondered if this is fairly normal, can it, does it get better? Hate having this tension in my life, don't want to be best mates with him I just wish he'd not hate me and we can be adults.
I don't think he likes the fact that I've moved on, and I'm not that 'little abused wife' anymore), these days I look younger, happier and I'm stronger. I think he thought I'd crumble without him. He emotionally abused me, and he left me for someone else. Anyone would think it was the other way around!
Does this ring true with anyone? Any advice for me on how to deal with it?
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prizeyprize · 15/06/2016 10:19
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