I've posted before and the general consensus is that DH is abusive and I should leave. Somehow I just can't manage it but now it's getting to the point of no return.
He belittles me, dismisses me and tells me I'm a bad mother. Won't look after DD. Financially controlling.
This week we're visiting my parents down south. It's been three days and he's openly abusive towards me in front of them. They won't intervene but that's a different story (and probably the reason I ended up with him). Today I stood up to him in a local town so he punished me by storming off and taking the car. Two hours later he turned his phone on and came back, told me if I ever speak to him in that way again... the usual.
I want to leave. DM says I should just put up with it and I'm probably exaggerating. I know I'll be entitled to a share of the property in the long term but in the short term I have no money. None. So I can't get out until I have enough to rent somewhere.
Is there any way back from this? How do I make myself leave? How do I get out asap? I'm so fucking unhappy.
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I just can't get it together to leave.
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CitaloPam · 13/06/2016 16:35
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