I work for an international company and have moved around a lot for work. I have a collection of 'Facebook friends' in different countries but we mainly communicate for networking or birthdays / big events only. A couple of years ago i was relocated back to the UK for a while, in a city where i knew no one. I have lots of colleagues that i get on well with, but no close friends. At the moment I'm trying to keep an out of work friendship alive that i really should let die because we have different values in life.
I'm an introvert and happy with my own space, and to do things on my own so I've stopped making an effort to get to know people. I also don't have a DP. My life seems to be easier and have much less stress if i'm not having to negotiate interactions with other people. However, all the things i read about happiness / depression /longevity say that humans need social support. So I'm kind of worried that i'm turning into a weird / dysfunctional / anti-social person. Is there anyone who can relate to this?
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AmiesArmy · 12/06/2016 11:39
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