1st time poster long time lurker .
So I got back in contact with an ex
Spent lots of time chatting on messenger back and forth every few days .
He had just come out of a long-ish relationship (he ended it )
So we met up for a drink and the evening went well -messages the next day to say had a great time would definitely like to do it again.
Arrange to see each other the following week -meet up again -have another great night and he comes back to mine .
Didn't have sex but had a kiss.
He was a bit drunk and was talking about how he was emotionally retarded .
So I messaged him the next day and said its been great to see you but I'm not quite sure where this is going .
He comes back with a long message saying its me not you but I'm not sure I want anything
I don't even think we can be friends
So I message him back and say ok -that's a shame I enjoyed his company and to take care
I just feel completely 😕 he initiated contact and initiated going for a drink
Had a great time in each other's company and then he sends the it's me not you message .
I just feel like why did he bother ? Why bother going for drinks messaging and carrying it on (I've been talking to him for 4 months ) and then send that message ?
Do you think he was just playing a game ??
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millmoo · 09/06/2016 18:27
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