Met a man on Saturday. Plenty mutual friends and we knew of each other before we got talking but never actually spoke to each other. Anyway, we met Saturday morning and got talking and he asked me for a drink. I only thought we would be having one but we ended up drinking all day and going back to his where we watched DVDs all night and listened to music, had some drinks and just had a really nice time chatting. I stayed that night and Sunday we just spent the day lazing around and I didn't go home until 10pm! I asked him why he was single and he said he had had a few flings but nothing ever worked out or felt right. He said I feel right though.
He was lovely all weekend. Complimenting me, saying how beautiful I was. Saying he would like to see me again.
We have texted none stop since and went to a gig together last night and I met a few of his friends. I had a lovely night and stayed at his again last night.
He has said he would like to see me more often and has invited me to watch a film at his on Friday if I'm free and he has booked us a table on Sunday at a lovely restaurant.
The only thing is - is there such a thing as TOO nice?! He is so really sweet but sometimes it gets a bit much for me. It's nice being told how pretty I am and how great company I am but I've even told him he doesn't need to try and impress me and what not and I've said I'm not a very soppy person! My last relationship was so different and he wasn't like thjs with me which tbh I really prefer!
I know it seems silly to say he's too nice and I do really like him and would like to see him again but I need him to stop being so lovely!! Lol. My friend has said he might be like this now and the more I know him it might calm down. I also am worried it's moving very quickly but my sister has said to just go with the flow and sometimes these things happen quickly. I just feel a bit confused! I genuinely really really like him. I don't know why but there's something holding me back. Maybe it's nerves/fear I don't know!
Any advice xx thank you
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Met somebody new - is there such a thing as too nice?!
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harriet2802 · 08/06/2016 19:50
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