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Can you help track a website/app down?

(28 Posts)
bigbumbrunette Fri 03-Jun-16 13:45:13

Please?
Where could this be posted?
Thank you

Wonkydonkey44 Fri 03-Jun-16 13:53:01

There's a few out there , maybe it's one called 'be naughty'
Hope your ok xx

Littleladylumps Fri 03-Jun-16 14:07:02

is it a profile?

shovetheholly Fri 03-Jun-16 14:13:58

Oh dear. I hope you are OK. Sounds like quite a shock.

SavoyCabbage Fri 03-Jun-16 14:18:04

Have you tried googling the exact words in the paragraph in speech marks?

iremembericod Fri 03-Jun-16 14:21:24

40Kg is very small

Does it have a profile picture of your DH?

zznotxy Fri 03-Jun-16 14:23:10

That height and weight sounds like my 10 year old DS! 4 foot 3 inches in old money, surely a fake?

SavoyCabbage Fri 03-Jun-16 14:23:50

And about six stone.

Littleladylumps Fri 03-Jun-16 14:24:36

And the height? I know that's probably not the point here but something doesn't seem right x

Redisthenewblack Fri 03-Jun-16 14:26:02

It looks very much like the Google play store advert for Grindr.

lifesalongsong Fri 03-Jun-16 14:27:17

Is if your child you're worried about? Those aren't adult details, 135cm is about 8/9 year old

Redisthenewblack Fri 03-Jun-16 14:28:17

Clearer picture. The layout/font are the same.

hellsbellsmelons Fri 03-Jun-16 14:30:45

So this person is only just over 4th and weights 6 stone!
This is a weird profile.
Where have you found it?

AnchorDownDeepBreath Fri 03-Jun-16 14:31:01

It's Grindr. I recognised it but didn't know how to word it nicely.

hellsbellsmelons Fri 03-Jun-16 14:32:01

That's 4 foot - not 4th!

DrowningInWallStickers Fri 03-Jun-16 14:32:19

Hope it's not your oh's profile, nasty shock if it is sad flowers

Not sure what app or site that is but agree with pp, looks like the Grindr pics. Also agree height and weight look off but many a non single person can fudge their details to make it not so obvious that they're playing away if they get caught.

desperatelysadandhurt Fri 03-Jun-16 14:32:41

Looks like Grindr.

I found out Dh was on it 3 weeks ago

DrowningInWallStickers Fri 03-Jun-16 14:32:58

Curious though, how can you see the profile and not know what site it's on?

Queenbean Fri 03-Jun-16 14:33:28

Gosh how awful. flowers for you op

bigbumbrunette Fri 03-Jun-16 14:35:20

Thank you so much for your replies. I'm fine, it's regarding a friend of mine. She's in bits (understandably - I've been in a similar situation which didn't turn out to be good news) so I'm trying to find answers for her before she goes batshit mental. I'll check out Grindr, thank you. There's a lot of accurate information on the profile but the weight and height make me suspect a wind up

Queenbean Fri 03-Jun-16 14:35:26

Oh OP I've just read that you've already found him cheating, kicked him out and decided to give it another go. My heart really goes out to you to find this out flowers

bigbumbrunette Fri 03-Jun-16 14:37:54

It's been screen shot and sent to her by someone who 'wants her to know'. His full name is on it. Surely someone wanting to be discreet would want to hide their identity?!

Queenbean Fri 03-Jun-16 14:39:30

Oh just read your previous message, relieved it isn't yours!

This man is obviously just stupid. And uses "lol". Kick him out for just that.

bigbumbrunette Fri 03-Jun-16 14:40:29

Queenbean, it's not my husband. Things are going well at the moment for us. He's still wearing his balls as earrings though.
I'm sorry for others that have gone through this. I feel sick to the stomach for my friend remembering that feeling.

hellsbellsmelons Fri 03-Jun-16 14:40:33

It all just looks odd though.
Is he only 6 stone?
Is he only just over 4 feet tall?
It looks like a made up profile to me.
And yes... I think you would hide your identity especially if you are exaggerating your stats so much as well.
Something doesn't add up here.

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