My partner of 7 yrs has been cheating on me for 6 months with his ex partner (- they were not officially together it was when we were on a break but I don't know what else to call it).
He has been going round to have sex multiple times a week and weekends. I thought he was "working late". I did some investigating and managed to meet up with her last week. I have no reason to believe she is lying she seemed shocked and genuine and activities match events that he didn't tell me about. One example is that we went away for the wkend and she turned up at his house looking for him as she was worried he had an accident, on that day I Remeber that he rushed back to drop me home couldn't stay and went to his and wouldn't tell me what was so urgent. He was really angry as he was rushing to drop me off and this is obviously why.
He has denied everything and said I am stupid for believing her. She knew about a perfume of mine in his house. He claims he told her it was mine on the phone while he was tidying up. Obviously a lie.
He broke up with me saying he doesn't want to be with someone who doesn't trust him and believe his side of things. I am foolish to belive it he is sick of repeating himself and she wants to break us up. We haven't spoken since. I am really heartbroken and it would have helped me to process the emotions if he admitted it. Is it common for men to just deny this forever?
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Why won't he admit he cheated
Feelbroken2016 · 02/06/2016 13:09
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