Does anyone else feel or know that they just don't quite fit in with other women or friends around them?
I'm quite an introvert so am happy alone quite a lot of the time. I'm also fairly recently separated so am also spending time working on my own issues (self esteem / self worth) which is proving invaluable.
I've always known I don't quite fit in with friends which I'm mostly fine with as I know people like me, I just don't quite connect with most other women. I don't seem to be interested in the same conversations (of home life, children and family issues).
I'm in my 40's and am quite happy engaging in hobbies that other female friends seem to view as for younger women (which is fine) but I think that in itself sets me apart from others. I also live in an area where most of the other school mum's are older than me (I have teenage dc) so I don't think that has helped.
I have a few male friends (although I think some have other motives) so I feel it's just having a real connection with other women that I miss.
I'm just wondering if anyone else feels like this, what their experience has been and how they have dealt with it?
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JennaBlack · 01/06/2016 20:10
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