Right, ok so im in a relationship with a lovely guy, he's my best friend, things are fab...except the sex.
I am SO attracted to him, he is hot stuff! lol all the chemistry is there, but when we first got together he had a tendency to hit the finish line while i was still getting my running gear on...he is a sensitive guy and him being worried that it wasnt good for me made it worse each time so i faked it. For about a year.
He isnt great with constructive criticism and whilst im happy to talk about sex, he turns into a blushing teenager if i talk about it, too sensitive, so i now find it hard to tell him what i want in bed because he thinks the things he did before will hit the buttons...but he doesnt know that it never did. Ugh. Now i think im too all up in my head during sex because of it to actually get to the good part at all! Any suggestions on sorting this out without giving his self esteem a thumping!?
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sex....can't believe im asking!
Writingdragonfly · 31/05/2016 09:15
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