Not sure if this is the right area but it is affecting my relationship.
Dh is a complete sports fanatic. BMX. He used to do it as a kid and now pushesgets our kids to do it most weekends. I have zero interest in this sport. It's hard on me. It's not like watching a gymnastics session for an hour or two. Gymnastics I actually like. It's an all day 8hour+ event sometimes takes up 2 days, the whole weekend. The travelling, the standing in the cold and rain waiting for hours for my little ones to race. Having to use the stinking outside portaloos. When my kids do race, its then over in 2 minutes. Then having to watch the rest of it, other riders (I have no interest). It takes all day as DH just loves it. He's now on the committee he now wants to create a national competition series. He has big ideas and ambitious. It's all he talks about. On Facebook all the time about bmx.
I'm a home bird. My idea of sport is Zumba.
I've had to go to Columbia this week and watch my kids race in the world championships. Of course I support them and like to watch. But I have had to get up at 5am everyday to help them get ready for the coaches and training. I've had to sit in 32degree heat for 11 hours as a spectator sat in one tiny spot. It's not a holiday for me. It's hell but I have to go and be there for my kids, travelling 13 hours on a plane from UK to be in Colombia . They are only 6 and 8.
I have fallen out with DHL this evening over dinner. He is exasperated with me as I don't like to talk about BMX and to be honest I'm not even interested. The problem is we are too different and I don't know how to solve this. Are you me? How do you cope if your dh is a nutter sports enthusiast? And I don't mean a casual hobby. Dh is extreme. He used to do international triathlon /ironman/national swim athlete before he had to give up and get a real job.
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If your other half is a complete sports or hobby nutter
CookieDoughKid · 31/05/2016 02:41
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