Ok, background: six years ago, my DH was having intimate conversations and swapping photographs with a couple of women he met online. We almost split over it, but he promised he had never met anyone, it had never been physical and that he would never do it again.
I was using his laptop yesterday and noticed, (OK, I checked cookies) he'd been on some websites that are specific to online sex chat, there were sex chat rooms that you had to register for and others that were 'anonymous' but all of them were definitely meant for the sharing of talk and photographs with private areas for one-on-one.
We have sex, he tells me he loves me/fancies me, but I'm feeling sh*t about it. Is it harmless, am I overreacting? I'm pretending nothing has happened, but I'm angry because he knows how I would feel about it and has done it anyway. I feel like it reflects on me and says something about how he feels about me and what he thinks of our relationship. AIBU?
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Online sex chatting - harmless?
Faceinacrowd · 30/05/2016 22:16
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